Wednesday, 17 October 2018

Random thoughts about impending parenthood


When your wife starts to swell in size, that’s when it all become real.

I have never doubted my abilities as much as I doubt my ability to be a father.

By the time of my next birthday, there will be three of us living in our house, one of whom will be reliant on the other two for survival; and one of those other two will be me….

What will cause me more worry: Having a daughter that will grow up to be pursued by uncaring, hormone-driven teenage boys? Or having a son that I will somehow have to teach to NOT get someone pregnant before they have a chance to finish education?

If I have a son, what can I do to make sure he doesn’t turn out just like me?

Why isn’t there a system in place that restricts the number of births? You should have to apply for approval, be forced to prove that you both have the intelligence and understanding to be a decent parent, and then be coached through the intricacies of child-rearing long before you’re even allowed to touch each other. It should be like getting planning permission from the local council before being able to add a new room to your home. Why is it easier to bring an unsupported child into the world than it is to build an extension?

I’m scared.

RC 17-10-18

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